Do you consider masturbating to porn cheating if you are married?
07.06.2025 12:43
Perhaps you should ask the spouse of someone who masturbates to porn how they feel about it. The person who needs to masturbate to porn probably would say no, but I bet their spouse may feel differently. That wife might say to herself, why does my husband need porn? Is he thinking about these vile pictures when he makes love to me? What if that porn is hardcore and degrading to women? I think I would let him know how upsetting it is to me and if he will not stop this behavior, I would insist on marital counseling. I don’t know if I consider it cheating, but I do think it is vile for a man to masturbates to porn and then try to tell me that those images do not fill his mind when he is making love to me.